Shoot that Arrow

Went out on another date...

Lately, when "interviewing", I am finding myself popping the Big Question: "What is your purpose here?"

And this is why I am still single... No one knows the answer

That's half the problem - I can work with that.
The bigger issue is: "I don't really want a purpose. Isn't the purpose of life to just enjoy it? Live it to the fullest? Life is too short not to?"

"White Male Privilege" RED FLAG goes off (skin color aside - I've enjoyed all).
Yes, Sir - to enjoy life to the fullest would do nicely.

However.

There are so many who aren't able. So many who are lost, sad, confused, and disempowered. So many who, struggling to afford the very life we speak of, can see no end to their strife. And you want to buy yourself a $5K+ bike just to explore another "ability" of yours? (I threw up a little in my mouth when I typed this.) 

The instant turn off: too many means + lack of purpose. That's an imbalance. Very unattractive.

The Instant turn on: Knowing your Purpose. Dedication to it. Integrity (live it every day). 

Please, good people of means: find something you truly care about (I know this will be bigger than yourself) - and take a goddamn stand for it. Stand for something. Take your means and invest them into a worthy cause. Even if you think you have nothing - you have so much!

​Just stand for something.

Shoot that arrow.